I am done with my mod, but do not know how get all of my new mod stuff into the bf2 folder? do i have to do something with the mod tool?

Go to Data_***\_BUILD and click on Modtools VisualMunge.exe make sure you select the "EVERYTHING" option in the Sides dropdown menu.
Then click munge. DO NOT close the program until a popup appears saying "All done! Go run Battlefront II." Then run the game. If you did everything right, your map should appear in the instant action menu with an orange name.

Before you ask ANYTHING else, PLEASE read the tutorials first.